Someone's hurt you.
Your minds conflicted because you didn't expect them to hurt you, you didn't see it coming. You envisage them as a mentor, close consort, family maybe even your love.
Maybe the person has sincerely apologized. In your subconscious, you can forgive but the entertainment outlets and those around you feed the paranoia of your conscious. They won't let you forget the pain, the betrayal, the humiliation.
You hold the person accountable because it makes you look/feel strong. You find it hard to forgive because you don't want to look weak. But is forgiveness really weak?
See, what you think is weak is actually strong, what you think is strong is actually weakness.
Imagine grudge and forgiveness were an actual species, an entity. How would they look?
One or the other would appear randomly at night, at your doorstep, when you're at work; who would you welcome?
Forgiveness is naturally wired into our beings, we were made to love hence why we feel an overwhelming peace when we do love each other. Theres freedom when we overcome pain, because pain doesn't last, but love always will.
But it starts with you. Start today.
Submitted October 10, 2017 at 02:04AM by Soulfood1738 http://ift.tt/2yCernJ
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